So often we try to place the people we know and love into categories. We want to put a tittle on them and label them. We want them to be what we’d imagine them to be. We see potential… we are hopeful.. We want to be apart of the growth.. We want to reap the benefits of it. But it’s not our choice.. There is not a collaborative agreement. There is no reciprocity. All you can do is look and wonder from afar about the should’ve… The could’ve. And the would’ve. You decided you want to be the first choice and ever the option.. So you pick up your grip.. Grab a bottle of water and get on the train to a hopeful destination.