Life is too short to walk around angry and upset with people. If you cant address the issue with the person, let it go.. there is no reason to harbor ill feelings that fesser for day months and years. I believe that is how cancer start. Im just over it all. Im over forcing relationship with family that refuse to grow up and have a conversation. Im over family that would rather talk about you to others but choose to run scared when asked to sit down and hash thing out. Im mentally exhausted from stupid non comunitive adults.