It’s crazy.. when you know someone.. you fall insyc with them.. you know their patterns.. you lean their moods.. you call when they were just thinking about you…
It’s the connection…
but the thing is .. you can’t connect with just any and everyone..
you feel their grief.. you absorb their energy.. that isn’t alway good.
some connections need to be severed.. dismissed without looking back..
connections can be detrimental and erosive.
Protect that vibe love.
I sometimes wonder if marriage is for me .. I seen the good the bad and the ugly.. Being with someone for 10 plus years kinda jaded me in the marriage department.
I mean I do want a companion.. but I don’t think I want the title and court obligations…
When it’s over I just want to be able to walk away and not have to fight for what i think is minds or yours..
In all actually, court marriages were never for black people.. this was a western practice that we took on when the drug us over here.. but that besides the point.
I see men and women in marriages where they are completely unsatisfied, hurting and plain unhappy..
I don’t want that.. I mean I know each relationship doesn’t have all high times.. but I don’t want to be continuously unhappy because i’m tied to someone by a paper that filed with the state.
any who.. my mind might change..lol
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Today this quote helped me.. It made me understand a few things and placed them in prospective. I am thankful those that speak into me and don’t just give me advice.. but actually listen to their own words.. Mr. C.. I thank you.
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Anyone who knows me.. know I love to support small businesses, black owned businesses, start-up etc. But what I don’t like is getting swindled and lied to.
If you tell me a piece is one of a kind, and I go on Amazon and see the same thing for a quarter of the price IN BULK that you sold it to me for. I will never buy anything else from you again.
That doesn’t stop me from supporting others . just not certain ones.
Don’t tell a lie to me.. and I won’t tell the truth about you.
my soul is irritated.. Up and down my social media timeline.. I see people saying ” Just pray about”.. I have an issue with that..
Now let me declare this.. disclaimer this
“I don’t care who you believe in, I’m not trying to offend a single soul”
back to what I was saying…
Just pray isn’t going to do anything.. you are setting yourself up to get walked over and letting life happen to you.. and not making things happen.
I don’t know how I’m going to pay my bill – Honey just pray”
Umm no ma’am.. use your resources.. contact organizations that help with those sorts of time.. get on a budget go to a day labor.
Stop giving up and depending on prayer to get you through.. Don’t get me wrong.. prayer/ meditation is great.. it helps with the mind.. but even in the bible it says prayer with out works is dead. Meaning. just praying and no action is useless.
I swear the next person who say Just pray.. I’m going off on you.. so giving people ill advice.. tell them to get up off their ass and make it do what it do.
Alright.. back to your regular scheduled programs-
He asked me if I started writing..
I said what?..
he said.. your book..
I said.. what book?
He said .. the book about your life..
I said.. umm
I see what you did there.. lol
When a strong mind speaks to you.. you have no choice but to speak back..
He’s my mentor.. and he doesn’t even know it yet!
Shout out to Lisa for having such good content on her site.. Lisa you inspired me to look for wise words.. so here is mine for today.
Every once and a while you just disconnect, let go.. and walk a different path.