Today I decided I’m running away

Baby today I’m running away.. I honestly can’t take it anymore..

I mean what can I say? this was long over due.. and I was not satisfied.

So baby I’m running.. I’m running from comfort and from mediocrity..

If I ever plan to live the life I want, I have to leave comfort behind.

Today I made my choice to speak to the universe and tell myself it will be ok..

I deserve every good thing that is coming my way.

passion, love, good energy, peace.. assurance

and it feels oh so go to leave..

opportunity is waiting for me..


Motivation Mondays

So.. I need some motivation.. Because I need to get to Egypt in 2017.. and I know I need to work very hard to get there.

I wanted this to be a Bae-cation.. but I don’t have a bae.. so I’ll have to go with some

I’m currently learning about the original settler of Kemet so I’m super geeked!!


This has been on my mind lately… I’ve been noticing that some women that are married are carrying majority of the load. I mean why be married if you are taking care if the kids by yourself.. Only going out with girlfriends etc.. I someday want to experience marriage, but i will not enter a union but live separate lives. I understand everyone having their own identity.  But I won’t carry the load all by myself… I think I’m a bit

Does it take money to date?

So I’ve been dating for the pass few months, most of them have been hits, some are total miss. Most of the time I attract guys who are the old school type, that like to pay for everything, which I’m cool with, but I also like to pay to give it some balance.

I’ve notice that once you are interested in that person you want to spend more time with them, and that can become costly. Lets take a look at it. If we go out three times a week, rather is just dinner, movies or a concert, that can be a small car note.

My question is does it take money to date? I personally think it doesn’t take a bunch.. but it take some.. even if it covers gas.. But other than that no. If you have an imagination and resourceful You can pocket that cash and save it for a trip.

Here are a few date that don’t cost any money and could actually help you get to know that person better:

  1. Trip to the library: A trip to the library will help you find out what type of literature your date is into. I love reading, and if my date is an avid reader like I am, his reading interest may be a great conversation starter.
  2. Check out the local Saturday market: This is one of my faves. On Saturday morning there is a community market that has an array of activities available, that’s all free. You can check out the locally grown fruit and veggie, while getting to know what your date like and dislike(you may get hints on favorite meals etc). You can also try bake goods while walking and talking.
  3. late night walk on the beach: this by far is my favorite. Usually the beach houses novelty stores, bars and cool little activities that are mostly free.  Water puts me at ease and makes me totally relaxed, so that will make the conversation flow.
  4.  Check out this video where  Male Translation podcast talks about dating with out using money, and let me know your thoughts.   

Sweetheart, I’ve been tryin’ so hard to get over you
Just simply can’t
‘Cause the love we shared through the years
Meant so much to me

All I’m lookin’ for is just a serious relationship
Someone I can hold all my life
Why don’t you give me that commitment
Let’s settle down, let’s chill

Don’t be afraid of me, I’m the one that is scared
But I promise everything will be alright
Come closer, let me talk to you

Take it slow..


When something feels so right.. that you are holding your breath hoping it’s not a dream.

Take it slow..

Wanting to skip pass sleep so that you can fully immerse yourself in its presence…

Take it slow..

But it feels so good the connects seems to unreal…

Take it slow..

But but no I don’t want to..


Take it slow.

Can I look behind your eyes to see your true intention?

Take it slow..

Can I have a prelude of your passion? can I tap into your inner working to see if we connect beyond attraction?

Yes.. but first we need to

Take it slow…

I don’t want nobody but you.. kissin on my tattoos

this reminds me of you…

I don’t want nobody but you
Kissin on my tattoos
I don’t want nobody but me
Talkin to you
Until you fall asleep
We better stop playing
Before we mess around and someone gets hurt
I don’t want nobody but you
Kissin on my tattoos