connections

It’s crazy.. when you know someone.. you fall insyc with them.. you know their patterns.. you lean their moods.. you call when they were just thinking about you…

It’s the connection…

but the thing is .. you can’t connect with just any and everyone..

you feel their grief.. you absorb their energy.. that isn’t alway good.

some connections need to be severed.. dismissed without looking back..

connections can be detrimental and erosive.

Protect that vibe love.

 

me

marriage

black

 

I sometimes wonder if marriage is for me .. I seen the good the bad and the ugly.. Being with someone for 10 plus years kinda jaded me in the marriage department.

I mean I do want a companion.. but I don’t think I want the title and court obligations…

When it’s over I just want to be able to walk away and not have to fight for what i think is minds or yours..

In all actually, court marriages were never for black people.. this was a western practice that we took on when the drug us over here.. but that besides the point.

I see men and women in marriages where they are completely unsatisfied, hurting and plain unhappy..

I ┬ádon’t want that.. I mean I know each relationship doesn’t have all high times.. but I don’t want to be continuously unhappy because i’m tied to someone by a paper that filed with the state.

any who.. my mind might change..lol

Mentor

He asked me if I started writing..

I said what?..

he said.. your book..

I said.. what book?

He said .. the book about your life..

I said.. umm

I see what you did there..  lol

When a strong mind speaks to you.. you have no choice but to speak back..

He’s my mentor.. and he doesn’t even know it yet!

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