It’s crazy.. when you know someone.. you fall insyc with them.. you know their patterns.. you lean their moods.. you call when they were just thinking about you…

It’s the connection…

but the thing is .. you can’t connect with just any and everyone..

you feel their grief.. you absorb their energy.. that isn’t alway good.

some connections need to be severed.. dismissed without looking back..

connections can be detrimental and erosive.

Protect that vibe love.




Back to writing

Geez I haven’t wrote in quite a while..

Lets see if I can do a recap..


I got my heart broken.. 2 times ( ol sucka)

I got a promotion.. (yeah baby)

I ended a toxic friendship. (bye bish)

I made peace with some things in my pass. (namaste)

I took a major step identifying my short comings. (get’er done)

and I saved a bunch of money by not giving a fuck.

Oh and I’ve been saying no quite a bit which feels great!

2017 will be an adventure.. I plan on getting out more because 2016 humbled the entire hell out of me.. Shit I might write a book about


no pressure

No pressure.. ..  the lines of communication are open..

I mean we need to talk.. nothing in particular.. but everything and nothing..

The more you talk.. the more I listen..

the more I can decipher.. the more I learn..

but no pressure.. I just want to check out your vibrations..

Do you speak to me when no words are spoken..

Can I grow from you?

No pressure..

wonderful things have been created in the friend zone.

No pressure..


Fool me once…

You ever just want someone to just tell you the truth?.. But they refuse to do so? Avoid confrontation/ closure at all cost?  Let me deal with my own emotions.. Font think for me… I got it

Fool me one time shame on you
Fool me twice, can’t put the blame on you
Fool me three times, fuck the peace signs
Load the chopper, let it rain on you …

back to the basics

what a weekend..

Each day I learn something new.. rather it’s how to do something.. or figuring out  my surroundings.

I’m noticing I’m less tolerant of people and their actions.  It’s a wonderful thing when you walk away from a situation that’s toxic and have no regrets.. I’m growing.

I realized that when someone tells you something.. believe them… It hurts like hell to stop caring for someone when they tell you they don’t want your love.

But.. like everything in this world.. Life goes on.

Time will make things better.

I had a friend visit me and she is such a breath of fresh air. I met her this year, and she has been more than a friend then some I’ve known for many years.. I thank God for that connection made.

Well that’s my weekend… looking forward to the week.. y’all have a good one!