using the love languages

Had the pleasure of sitting on the panel to discuss love languages and using them.. let me know what you think.. also Live the video and subscribe to Male Translation Podcast



I’m not even sure how to do this

Bad-Date-Blacks.jpgSo how do you date?

Like seriously?

In this day and age everything is so fast paced..

It’s not organic.. and feels rushed.

I didn’t date much in high school, so i didn’t get the whole trail and error phase.

Now that i’m actively  dating, it’s surreal and i don’t know what to really expect.

I’ve been on some crazy dates.. some dates where my date is mute.. and one where what ever could go wrong..went wrong.

Talk to me … how do I date properly and with intent?

It’s not you.. you’re perfect.. biiiiih

I’m so tired of hearing that.. like really.. If i’m so perfect.. why didn’t you want to be in a relation ship with me..

Dom.. you’re too good for me.. seriosly


man I’m like so tired of that like.. how about you step yourself up.. be the man I know you can be.. and we watch Love Jones and live happily ever after?

But nope.. that would be too easy…

Sorry guys i’m just venting

What to do

I’ve been trying to get my affairs in order.. Get some type of organization in my crazy life. It’s been a challenge, but I’m finding my way.
The biggest lesson I’m learning is doing what’s best for me.
I’ve always thought of others and made my decisions on others feelings or possible reaction.

Ahhh.. This the going to be a great

Weathering the storm

These last few months have been trying.. Work, relationships, business, family etc….just went I feel like Im to my breaking point.  God reminds me who he is and what he can do. Then he sends me confirmation through friends that I will get through it. This year has truly pushed me out of my comfort zone.
It has made me recognize what is important and what is not.
My sanity can not depend on a person or an event. Depression is real..
Don’t day I love you unless you mean it.
Take care of what’s important first.
Its ok to be sporadic sometimes.
But planing is important.
You can not pour into others if you are totally empty.
Open and Allow yourself to be loved.
Be a risk taker.
Love people where they are at.. Not their potential

stop procrastinating.. It eventually will need to be done.

Oh.. And pay your student loans. Lol

I have a bunch of growing to do.  But I know everything will be ok