Ready to take off

How do I incorporate my love for travel.. My love for my family and my love for culture.. Once I am able to get that together and figure that out…. Bon-voyage! I’m outty 5000



Drifting in and out of unconsciousness… All I can think about is you.
You interrupt my dreams of shopping in France, walking roads in Venice… All I can think about is you..
Your slight smile.. Your chocolate skin.. Your full lips Your sweet face… Keeps interrupting… interrupting my sleep. My much needed sleep.

5am and its you I’m thinking about. The way your beard feels against that spot below my ear. How perfectly our bodies fit when we stand chest to chest and you whisper into my ear and call me beautiful.

Baby its you.



I constantly think about you.

You constantly invade my private thoughts.

I constantly envision the possibilities.

You constantly give me a reason to think about forever.

I constantly doubt that love is within my reach.

You constantly remind that you are within my grasp.


Does it take money to date?

So I’ve been dating for the pass few months, most of them have been hits, some are total miss. Most of the time I attract guys who are the old school type, that like to pay for everything, which I’m cool with, but I also like to pay to give it some balance.

I’ve notice that once you are interested in that person you want to spend more time with them, and that can become costly. Lets take a look at it. If we go out three times a week, rather is just dinner, movies or a concert, that can be a small car note.

My question is does it take money to date? I personally think it doesn’t take a bunch.. but it take some.. even if it covers gas.. But other than that no. If you have an imagination and resourceful You can pocket that cash and save it for a trip.

Here are a few date that don’t cost any money and could actually help you get to know that person better:

  1. Trip to the library: A trip to the library will help you find out what type of literature your date is into. I love reading, and if my date is an avid reader like I am, his reading interest may be a great conversation starter.
  2. Check out the local Saturday market: This is one of my faves. On Saturday morning there is a community market that has an array of activities available, that’s all free. You can check out the locally grown fruit and veggie, while getting to know what your date like and dislike(you may get hints on favorite meals etc). You can also try bake goods while walking and talking.
  3. late night walk on the beach: this by far is my favorite. Usually the beach houses novelty stores, bars and cool little activities that are mostly free.  Water puts me at ease and makes me totally relaxed, so that will make the conversation flow.
  4.  Check out this video where  Male Translation podcast talks about dating with out using money, and let me know your thoughts.   

African Dreams


Ever had a dream so vivid and poetic, when you wake up you body is still reacting?

Well I had a dream like that this morning..

I went to bed at some what of a decent time, then i get this random call around 1:30 asking if I was sleep. Umm Sir sleep is what people do at 1 am.. unless you are working the graveyard shift or hooking.. I do neither.

So I couldn’t fall back asleep until 4:30.. That’s when I had the dream.. I’m feeling all weirded out reminiscing.

OK.. the setting was in Africa.. I had on minimal cloth clothing, kind of living off the land.. and I was MARRIED! .. yeah.. it was like i was in a theater looking at my self.

So my husband was this chocolate, powerful, regal, bald head King. I’m getting excited typing it!.. We basically ruled this little country and he took me where ever he went. We made love is some of the weirdest, scenic and romantic places..It was sweet and sensual lol and it started to get a lil risqué at that point. I was enjoying it.

Then I freaking woke up! I was like mannnn.. NOOOOO!! i wanna go back to sleep!

I miss him

No one that looks like me…

It baffles me when I look in corporate America and I don’t see anyone that looks like me. There has to be a change there so much things that are going on that someone cannot relate to you.. there is no diversity.. I am tired of having to take lower level jobs not because. Of lack of education but it’s because of who you know not what you know. And sad to say skin color.. I think its time for black communities to unite and. Create our own.. They don’t mind us doing clerical work… Maintenance.. But never the face of the company..